Ask Dr. Katelyn: Why Can’t I Feel Joy, Even in Moments That Once Made Me Happy?

If you’ve been moving through your life lately with a sense of flatness—like joy is something you can remember but not actually feel—you’re not alone. Many people describe this as a kind of emotional numbness, a quiet loss of vibrancy that sneaks in without a clear beginning. You still do the things you “should” do. […]

Ask Dr. Katelyn: Why Do I Shut Down Emotionally Around Family During the Holidays?

If you notice yourself going quiet, flat, or strangely numb around family in December, you’re not alone. What many people call emotional shutdown isn’t a personal failure—it’s your nervous system doing exactly what it learned to do in the environments that shaped you. Especially if you live with high-functioning depression or old “mother wound” triggers, […]

How Holiday Noise, Crowds, and Sleep Disruptions Trigger Hidden PTSD Symptoms (And How to Stabilize Fast)

The holidays are supposed to feel warm, nostalgic, and joyful. But for many people living with post-traumatic stress—especially those with military experience—this season often lands differently. The noise, the crowds, the disrupted sleep schedules…what most people call “holiday chaos” can register in your system as something far more serious. This isn’t because you’re “overreacting.” It’s […]

Ask Dr. Katelyn: Why Do I Feel Wired but Exhausted?

(Even Though I’m Eating Clean, Training Hard, and Sleeping Well?) There’s a particular kind of fatigue that shows up for high performers around the holidays: the body feels heavy, the mind feels fast, and no amount of “doing everything right” seems to shift it. This wired-but-exhausted state isn’t a failure of discipline. It’s a reflection […]

Black Friday to Cyber Monday: How to Stop Emotional Spending and Shop Mindfully

Every November, inboxes overflow with “can’t-miss” deals, flash sales, and countdown timers designed to hijack your attention — and your nervous system. By the time Cyber Monday rolls around, many of us are left with more boxes than we need and a creeping sense of guilt or anxiety that follows the high of impulsive spending. […]